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Reply to Firsttimememommy---If your boyfriend is afraid to confront his mother now what do you think he will be like after the baby is born. If you think your parents are hard on you it's because they love you and they are thinking ahead, you know? the future. You asked for help and suggestions and I will give it to you. Your boyfriend doesn't sound like he is even ready to take responsibility of a gold fish let alone you and a baby, he sounds like he has to grow up a whole lot more before he becomes a father. I highly suggest you go back to your parents house where your loved and your baby will be cared for and you can get your life together and get a job after the baby's born. When you became pregnant you lost the right to think of yourself first. Your baby has to come before what you want or your boyfriend wants. You need to be in a stable environment where mature adults that love you can help you and NOT in your boyfriends house. You have to swallow your pride and put your baby first and you owe your child the best you can give it. If your parents don't want you boyfriend around they probably have a good reason for their decision. Maybe he will have to show them he can man up and act like a grownup and put you and the baby first. You really don't have a choice here, if you love your baby please do the right thing for it and yourself and go home. You have no idea how much your parents love you, just think about how much you love your baby right now even beore it's born, now muliply that love by a million and that is how much love your parents have for you. Please, Please make amends with your mom and dad and let them help you. If your boyfriend loves you now he will love you a year from now all the more, it's up to you now. Does your baby come first or does he come first? I wish you the very best my dear and I pray you will make the responsible decision. Sincerely Sheshe030

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